You're crazy about him. He's the first thing that you think about when you wake up in the morning, and the very last thing that you think about when you are going to sleep. You know that he is far from being perfect, yet you wouldn't change him for the world. No matter what he does, you think he is the most wonderful person on the planet.
You know that love can only make you truly happy, if the feeling is mutual. So how can you tell if he loves you back? Here are a few ways to tell if he loves you.
1. He Gives You a Reasonable Amount of His Time
If you are in a relationship with a busy man, yet he still finds the time in his day to call, email, or invite you out on one of his rarely free nights, then he's in love with you. This means that, despite how busy he is, he still has the time in his busy day to think about you.
2. He Shows You that He Loves You
Some guys have a lot of difficulty expressing feelings. Don't worry if he doesn't actually say the words. It's a guy thing. Instead, pay attention to the way he treats you. If he loves you, he will go out of his way, to ensure that, even though he can't bring himself to say the words, that he does in fact love you.
3. He Keeps His Promises
He keeps all of the promises that he makes to you. For instance, he will call, or come see you whenever he says he will. He never keeps you waiting. He doesn't want you to be disappointed, and wants to ensure that you are happy.
4. He Accepts Everything About You
Everybody has flaws. There is no such thing as a perfect person. We all have imperfections, insecurities, and fears. But if he's willing to put that all aside, and accept you for who you are, then he's definitely in love with you.
5. He's Generous
I'm not saying that he should be constantly buying you expensive gifts. Maybe he doesn't make a lot of money, and can't afford to spend much. But when he does, it makes him feel good knowing that he can make you happy.
6. He Tries to Get Along With Your Friends and Family
If he really does like and get along with all of them, than that's amazing. But if he doesn't really care for them, for any reason, yet still makes the effort to be nice than he deserves some brownie points.
In his trying to be nice to your loved ones that he doesn't like, that means that he is taking your feelings into consideration, and is willing to take that extra step in order to please you.
7. He Only Has Eyes For You
If your guy loves you, than he won't feel the need to think of any other girl in a "romantic" way. He no longer has the "wandering eye" that men tend to have. You are the only girl for him.
8. He's There For You When You Need Him
If he's willing to be there for you through both the good times and the bad, you know where his heart is. He could come try to nurse you back to health when you are sick. Or if you are having emotional problems, he'll be there beside you, to comfort you. True love isn't just being there through the good times. It's being there through the rough times as well.
9. You've Met His Friends and Family
He wants to show you off, and to show off the fact that he has made a good choice in you. He trusts you not to embarrass him in front of the people that he is closest to. Introducing you to his friends and family as his girlfriend is a good way to ensure that you have a legit relationship.
10. He Doesn't Dwell on His Past Relationships
He doesn't talk about his exes, be it something good, or something bad. At least not around you. True, his past relationships are a part of what has made him, part of his history, but if he loves you he'll have enough respect for you not to bring them up. If he does, this could mean that he isn't over his previous girlfriend, which should be a major warning sign for you.
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